Little saving cash – interesting

9 months ago, i decided to put some money for saving. At that time i just wanted to do something different as usual i did. So i put aside 4 millions VND in a bank account – a nice started. The account should have been updated for every month. However, that was the only and last time i put money in 🙁 . In programming, we call it: Fire and Forget.

9 months later; which is now; i have a small problem with money. I need money for a trip with my girlfriend’s company. I could borrow from friends or got it from my credit card as i did before. When considering the solutions, that bank saving came back to my mind. I decided to go to the bank and asked for my money. Surprisingly, i have 4 millions 3 thousands and 24 VND. Yeah i am happy. And the most important thing is that i feel the power of those small saving.

A bit of fact is that many people do the same thing for long long time ago, except me 🙁 . That idea is now coming in my mind. Obviously i know how to use it and make it better.

Is it funny?

Yesterday, i posted a note about: regular drinking rules on facebook. It is about things i should do to have a fun drinking party and also keep my life healthy.

In the morning, i have gotten many comments; especially many of them were not positive. I was quite a bit of shock since they thought that it was bullshit and the original reason i did that was of my girlfriend asked me to do. The truth is that i came from my idea and she had no idea about the note.

After a while, as i read in a book, there is a space between fact and reaction, i feel sorry for those who made those comments. Instead of replying them non-politely, i replied with polite comments and think about who they are and where they come from.

I realize that when you post something in facebook. If the content is about funny or bad luck or feeling sorry about yourself, then you get many positive, fun feedbacks from community. Else you get not nice ones.

Are they really thinking as what they wrote? or are they showing off a fake face?

Changes

Wow quite a long time i have not touched my blog. I is a bit hard to start writing something now. These days i have made so many changes myself in variety of subjects.

It started with my personal problem. I had many free time after work. And mostly i spent it in drinking, hanging around with friends. Not a big deal actually since i am not a drunk. However, when i sat down and though ahead about the way i will go, about my future. It came down a big problem when looking things at detail. Let’s me point out the things that i have known for long time without taking any action.

Whenever i came out, i spent money. And usually i came home late. It terribly affected my health, made me tired the day after. My family, my lover felt sad about me … And obviously i had a dark future in front even thought i have a quite good salary. I can live with that amount of salary WITHOUT ANY SAVINGS.

I started to solve my problem by reading books. I looked for any kinds of books i can read: novel, best seller books. The 2 first books i got were: How to spend money and The way of managing money and properties of Isrealite. And they totally changed the way i think. It is long to list out here 🙂

Based on the book, i planed for my daily life; keep the penny in a separated place at the end of the day. I also planed ahead for 6 months. Now things get so much easier to me. I really think that i can plan my life and make it happen as i want.

Beside those personal stuffs, i have a #1 girlfriend which will be my wife in next year. We are planing together for the wedding. From now on, my plan means that OUR plan 🙂 I am so proud of her.

 

This post is a way to get me back to my blog. I have listed out many things i will do. And of course, i will blog them. 🙂

Messy

From the beginning of the year, i have had some unhappy issues, events. They were related to my relatives, relationship and personal life and feeling as well. Honestly speaking, i might come from my thinking. I usually say that everything comes from your head. It depends on you, you control it. However, life does not run that way.

From the basic point of view; or from other view; i have a perfect life so far. I have a great family, a nice little sister ( who is an independent girl now 🙂 ), a nice and beautiful lover, and a job. I also run social activities such as kick-boxing, badminton, billiards, drinking, hanging out with friends,…. yeah quite a lot and interesting enough for a man.

It seems so perfect that also caused the trouble 🙁 . Behind the scene there is always a pain. I want to note them out here. However, it is better to keep inside since i am bit afraid :P. During that period, i came out with some solutions. They were aimed at slowing down my life’s speed a bit. I have tried to stay away from the crowd such as drinking, “money” billiards, doing houseworks. Yeah it worked for a while. And then people are just human – being. I was back in those crowds for sometimes. “Breaking the rule is always a trouble”, i got it from “transporter movie”.

Pressure is the way to grow up, and sometime is a killing tool. I have things in my mind and also plan to do it. Now what i really need is time and do stuffs slowly.

Time to do what i am not usually doing!

A simple thing is waking up early in the morning: i will have a better time to have breakfast, drinking coffee with a cigarette, picking up some English words from dictionary or any sources, and then going to work. Can you figure out how many thing you must do to archive that simple thing?